Create The Love
You've Always Wanted
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It’s the one thing that unites and connects us all.
We are not united by national origin, gender, politics, ethnicity, and the like. Not universally. The one thing that universally unites us is this:
It's the one thing every human has is in common.
Any poem about love in any language still translates the same experience. Be it Rumi or Pablo Neruda: Love. It does not matter where your lover came from or whether you have the same birth language - or even speak the same language. Or what color they are. We can fall in love with anyone from any place - from any religion or cultural background - at any time.
We’ve all experienced some version of it.
Perhaps it was the rush of the chemical attraction; they touched your hand and the electricity was unforgettable. Or maybe it wasn’t the chemistry; maybe it was the feeling of finally being home. A kind of comfort and safety you felt almost immediately. Or maybe it was a feeling of familiarity - as if you've known someone for years even though you just met them.
Then at some point when those feelings (many of which we discover are Illusions and projections) are dispelled, and the person begins to behave in ways that disappoint, confound, or even anger us, we begin to question the connection that we have with them and at times, perhaps, even our own judgment.
Inevitably we come face-to-face with how many assumptions we've made. How we have built our entire relationship and levels of trust, as well as our desires about the future, on these assumptions. And in our pain and confusion, we often make grave errors that only make matters worse and tragically make our future in that relationship - or the next - even worse than that.
Sucks, right? But you know what?
Virtually all of that is avoidable.
Most of us do not know how to see ourselves up for success in the beginning - we start dating based on chemistry and attraction or availability - not on aligned values. We do not know how to have the conversations to set a baseline for what we will agree on - what our agreed foundation is - heck, some people wait so long to have these conversations that they are not even sure if they are monogamous or both dating other people months into dating.
These are conversations that need to be had sooner rather than later. And some people know that, but they don’t know how to have those conversations.
Or when conflict arises, we lack the tools to navigate the situation in a way that feels successful, let alone connective and satisfying to both of you.
Or when it stalls we don't know how to keep it alive, sexy, and have it continue to inspire and uplift - to bring out the best in us.
And then when it ends we have no constructive way to deal with the grief, the self-doubt, the anger, and no capacity to deal with feelings of betrayal or loss … or .. confusion.
Some of us at that point in the process immerse ourselves so deeply into the process and into the feelings of loss that we may even think that we are destined to repeat the cycles - and perhaps some of you have that do not work and lack fundamental workability.
This framework addresses all three phases.
#RelationshipGenesis: How to consciously and mindfully design your relationship.
Whether you are single and want to start off by doing it right from the first date, or you are in a relationship and you want to re-boot, re-model, and/or completely transform the relationship, this is where we begin.
The truth of the matter is if you still harbor resentments about your past relationship - or about men or women in general, you are not yet ready to date again. Not responsibly
The Law of Attraction and confirmation bias are powerful forces - most of which happen at the unconscious level. But we can change this so you can use the power of your mind to get what you want - rather than having what you keep trying to avoid.
We have you take on mindsets and beliefs that will serve you and your relating in several areas:
Once you have cleared out the past and taken on empowering and powerful mindsets and beliefs and committed to certain principles that will help you avoid common pitfalls, you can head out into the real world.
#RelationshipContinuum is about how to navigate conflict, keep is alive, vibrant, and sexy. How to nourish your relating so it feels fresh and romantic every day, keeping you in love and connection.
Specific communication structures for quickly deeply resolving conflict - without stepping over anything or indulging in bypass - so you can more rapidly get back into connection.
How to express your needs, make requests, and create new agreements and understandings.
From date nights to reinvigorating your sex life.
Strategies for play, romance, and increasing your intimacy and connection.
Why The Platinum Rule is way better than The Golden Rule.
Are you in an alive, vibrant relationship? Or are you just in a habit?
When is it time to leave?
This may be the most difficult question for us to answer for ourselves and there are so many variables - if there are children involved it makes it even more complicated even if the end result is the same.
But one thing we want to be sure of is that we do not stay in the relationship for the wrong reasons.
However, if you have come to the conclusion it will be impossible to
Once you have made the courageous choice to end it, there are several critical things you must do.
And why it is important to take time after a breakup.
Consciously designing and manifesting your next lover or partner.
Whether you are in grief and do not want to repeat the same patterns or you are in the middle period and there is a lack of aliveness in your relating or you are single or are seeking or about to begin a relationship, we've got you covered.
For those who want to do the deep work that will provide lasting, stable, permanent change. Evolve how you relate to yourself (ego) and how you relate to the events in your life (emotions) and enjoy ever-increasing levels of choice, freedom, and happiness.
Jason began teaching coaches how to build six-figure businesses in 2008. Evolutionary Sales is sales without the selling. For the practitioners looking to build their business without compromising their heart-centered values.